Red Flags: Icks, Personality Quirks, or Warning Signs? How to Know the Difference.

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A tribute to the power of awareness.

Trusting others is a natural part of life, but how can we be sure we’re placing our trust in the right people? Awareness is the first step and it begins with understanding the subtle signs that differentiate harmless quirks from real red flags.

It’s not about living in fear—it’s about developing the confidence to recognize when someone’s behavior feels “off” and knowing how to respond. By sharpening our intuition, learning about common manipulation tactics, and paying attention to patterns over time, we can build the skills to protect ourselves while still embracing meaningful connections.

What Readers Are Saying

Diane provides a validating framework for us to gain a deeper understanding of warning signs. She creates a safe haven to explore, and explains the cues, attitudes and behaviors that can alert us to potentially damaging relationships. We are sensitively led through the spectrum of individual differences, identifying potential danger, the symptoms of distress and trauma, and the ongoing process of healing. --Hollie Ann Brooks, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC

What a fabulous book! I wish I had this when I was dating years ago. Times have changed, and terms have changed but people have not. I also wish this was available for my daughters! --Marlene Gross-Ackeret

The book is wonderful, and I wish I had known all this before I agreed to marry! --Gayle Shinder

One of the things I really appreciate about this book is its practical approach. The book covers a wide range of red flags, including emotional manipulation, lack of communication, and controlling behavior, among others. --Emily Thompson

This book's emphasis is on empowering readers. It not only highlights the warning signs but also provides practical strategies and advice on how to address them. It feels like you have a trusted friend by your side, supporting you along the way. --Olivia Johnson

"Red Flags" is for anyone who wants to build healthy and fulfilling relationships. It equips readers with the tools to recognize warning signs and make informed choices. --Sophie Davis-Becker